Do you ever get that feeling that you want to move forward and yet you feel stuck, unsure what to do next… as if you’re waiting for a sign that everything will turn out ok.
It’s as if you are driving a car, and have one foot on the accelerator and then the other foot on the brake, as you jolt and hop down the road …. stop start stop start.
Or worse still you feel as if you’re like a deer blinded by the headlights of a car, and frozen still. Instead of moving forward your chatterbox mind takes over with a barrage of constant chatter …..
- I don’t know what to do next
- What if it fails
- What will people think
- I don’t think I have all the information to make a decision yet
- I don’t have everything I need yet
- I haven’t worked out the perfect plan or strategy yet
- I don’t have the money, time, energy to move forward
- I’m waiting on someone else to make a decision for me
- I don’t know what I want ….. etc etc
Do you sometimes feel like this, as if you’re waiting for all your ducks to line up in a row and then you’ll start and move forward. I know I have in the past, and sometimes still do, although now I have learnt some techniques to help me move through this quickly.
Your chatterbox mind just wants to keep you ‘safe’ but sometimes it seems like doom and gloom doesn’t it. It’s a no wonder that if you tune into that voice moment by moment, day in day out, NOTHING would get done as you live a life in fear, being stuck and full of excuses for not creating and living the life you talk about and want in your heart.
So what if there was an alternative? What if you focussed on the possibility of creating a new future instead, one that was actually empowering that moved you forward?
Move from STUCK to ACTION
- Take a couple of deep breaths
- Place your attention on your heart
- Imagine the result you do want …. who are you being, what are you doing and how do you feel as a result of achieving that
- What’s the first step you need to take to make a start and do that
- What’s the next step …. building momentum, moment by moment
Life is a gift, and it’s up to each and everyone of us to create the life we choose by design not by accident. Take the reins of you own life and go after your dreams, create it and fall back in love with your life moment by moment. Then watch the miracles happen.
Momentum is everything. Let go of the past and just start where you are right now, and course correct along the way. The time is always NOW to make a new decision, not by replaying and living out your past moment by moment or by being fearful and anxious of the future.
Wish It … Dream It … Do It!